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Oh Babe, grow up, seriously. What a ridiculous statement.

I actually do not find bumps beautiful or lovely or natural at all. Sorry, that I don't look at things like everyone else seems to, I don't see the miracle of life, yada, yada, I just see a huge bursting belly. I don't mean any offense to anyone at all, and I'm not trying to hurt anyone's feelings, but I just don't get the beautiful bumps idea at all.

FFS How would your photos be ruined by two pregnant bridesmaids??? One of mine will be 6 months when I get married and I'm delighted. I know how hard they tried to get pregnant and to be honest it will just make my day even happier because I know how happy she will be. My dresses are bought already but we are going to get an extra bit of material and get an extra panel put in the dress if its too small on the day.

I DO actually think the OP is being extremely selfish! You have no idea what some people have to go through to have a baby and to expect someone to put that off just because you are getting married is beyond me!

thanks folks for all the replies.

i wouldn't dream of asking them to step down. they are both the best in the world. just having a little moan after fittings

ah well that's fair enough, i suppose it can drive up the cost all right.

sure as long as you're all happy.

Youre entitled to a moan. Its your special day.
Just keep in mind how important and special a time it is for them too.
If the dresses suit a pregnant shape you will have nothing to worry about, cos they ll look gorgeous

I've already replied to this, and I don't have an issue with bumps at all BUT, I was asking some of the girls I work with what they thought and one of them made a good point.

How will 6 / 8 month pregnant women cope with constantly bending down and fixing your dress / train / veil, or running around and geting things for you etc??

I'm sure it'll all be fine, but it might be worth just checking it out with them that they both feel they'll be able for it.