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Skippy you should be ashamed of yourself.

Skippy you are a rude and ignorant woman. I have plenty of respect for myself, hence trying to get to the bottom of this problem and sorting it all out. How dare you say those things. Why would this be a great way of getting attention. I could think of alot better and nicer ways of getting it.
I sincerly hope youre never faced with any troubles in your life because if you are you deserve no sympathy. With an attitude like that i dread to think what man you have attracted. God im so angry.

Well we havent seen much of each other in the past week due to work and family committments. We did have a night out on Saturday but it was drink fuelled so thought it best not to bring up that kind of conversation. I did check his phone yesterday mrning and nothing from any woman so it really put my mind at rest as he had text saved from the last few weeks. Most of them were from me!!
So for the moment im monitoring it. I will keep checking his phone when i can and keep an eye on him, if something comes up then ill confront him straight away. I know it sounds terrible that i have to keep an eye on him but i think i can do this for a few weeks just to make sure.
I love this man with all my heart and i want us to be together. I dont want to jump the gun just yet incase it is innocent or incase it is a case of a girl texting him and hes ignoring it. I will keep you all updates with how it progresses. thank you all (except for Skippy!) for your kind words and advice. It really helps to gget other peoples point of view and its sometimes not best to mention these things to family and friends. But seriously girls thanks so much, i really do appreciate it .xx

Well we havent seen much of each other in the past week due to work and family committments. We did have a night out on Saturday but it was drink fuelled so thought it best not to bring up that kind of conversation. I did check his phone yesterday mrning and nothing from any woman so it really put my mind at rest as he had text saved from the last few weeks. Most of them were from me!!
So for the moment im monitoring it. I will keep checking his phone when i can and keep an eye on him, if something comes up then ill confront him straight away. I know it sounds terrible that i have to keep an eye on him but i think i can do this for a few weeks just to make sure.
I love this man with all my heart and i want us to be together. I dont want to jump the gun just yet incase it is innocent or incase it is a case of a girl texting him and hes ignoring it. I will keep you all updates with how it progresses. thank you all (except for Skippy!) for your kind words and advice. It really helps to gget other peoples point of view and its sometimes not best to mention these things to family and friends. But seriously girls thanks so much, i really do appreciate it .xx

oh my god, seriously monaghanbride, you have got to have it out with him. how can you carry on with him knowing you saw those texts on his phone. I just don't get how the hell you have managed to keep quiet about it. I'm sure he is deleted texts he is getting from her if he is seeing someone else. I kinda agree with skippy here (or maybe she said it on another post) but women who let men get away with these things bring it on themselves.

Its all very well and good to say you will just monitor the situation but this is going to just eat away at you until you get it sorted once and for all no matter how much you tell yourself that you are ok about it.
I would be afraid that he would be deleting the texts and thats why you didnt see them. Just be careful hon

You need to be more mature here - you need to talk to him about this straight away and let him know what you are thinking.
Do not accuse him of anything just let him know what you have told us and how it looks to you.

For God's sake if you are marrying this man you have to be able to trust him with every single aspect of your life, and your plan to make sure he is not cheating is to "monitor things"

Get it sorted - no point in waiting for the worst to happen.

MPA

Hey Monaghan bride,

First of all, don't mind skippy. She just likes to stir things up and annoy people for the sake of it. Only you know the whole dynamics of the situation, so go with your gut on it. Of course I would say you really need to do somthing about it to find out the truth.

My advice is - as you know, you have got to find out for certain. Whether this be by finding concrete evidance, confronting h2b or the woman in question - at the end of the day its up to you - and its an awful decision for you to have to make.

What would I do?...1. PI if I could afford one 2. confront h2b (calmly) with your suspicions and if I still wasn't happy 3. confront the woman in question.....

Wish you the very best of luck in this, and I hope that he is being faithful to you. Stay strong, and remember we're here if you need us....and do your best to look after yourself.

First of all I am not on here to stir shit. Far from it. I can't apologise for for what I said. I just have a very direct way of talking to people. I cannot beat around the bush when it is so obvious what the answer is.

We are doing her no favours be telling her to be strong and hang in there. She needs to confront him once and for all. You don't need PI's. You will be able to tell from the look on his face and you will no longer be stressing yourself to pieces. It just seems so easy to me!

And if I make you angry Monaghan you have no idea how angry it makes me to read about a young woman whose partner might be taking her for a ride but won't confront him and let him have it or at least get it off her chest.

If you can't speak to him about this then you should not even contemplate marrying him.

I do have a heart but I reserve my love and feelings for those I know are worthy of them and won't hurt me, namely my husband. And of course I have had problems in my life, I do live in the real world!