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I was just wondering is it the brides job or the bridesmaids job
to organises the hen party. My bridesmaids have taken it upon
themselves to do it, which I don't mind and is a great help
but the thing is I'm starting to feel left out!!

They're making all of the decisions - where we're staying what
we're doing. I don't want to seem ungrateful buts it's suppose to be
my hen party. I tried to tell them I wante to be involved but
they think they are doing me a favour and I'm just too much of
a control freak.

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It's usually up to the BM... i think? why don't you relax and let them do all the organisation sure haven't you got enough to be doing...

Traditionally it's the BM, but more and more brides are looking after it as far as I am aware. However, if you have a definite idea of what you want to do, then I'd tell them, and I'd also tell them what you definitely don't want. I think but, once you hand over control of the hen night, there's no chance you'll get it back!!!

thats exactly it, I don't mind them doing the hard work, I just want
a bit of input. I said it to my sister last night and I think we've sorted
everything out. She was a bit put out at the begining but she came
around eventually!!