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I think all men secretly love porn...
My h2b swore blind to me for years that he wasnt interested in it & its only recently that he admits to liking it - on occasion - with me watching with him. Im fine with this as long as its not an obsession (although I wouldnt like it done behind my back - much more fun to watch together I think!). Obviously no woman would be thrilled to hear her partner likes porn - but I think its just one of those things you cant help - ie, like woman and shoes/chocolate/shopping etc.!

Yeah I'd agree that I'd be open to watching porn with him, or even have him watching it on his own. A little of it, or a lot if you're into it, is fine once its not being done behind you back and involves secrecy and lies.

I would prefer him watching porn on the quiet (as long as it doesnt cross any boundaries) then sleeping with someone else.

I agree totally with Survivor - I'd be more worried if he was looking at it and lying to me.
Once it's not illegal stuff or being a substitute for an actual sex life, then I have no problem with it. I don't buy the "it exploits women" bit in the slightest. Most of these women actually exploit men with considerable skill.

I agree too, it would be the lie rather than the porn that bothered me.

however saying that I found a mag at the back of my H2b wardrobe not too long ago and it shocked me. Mind you I didn't really feel the pictures were that nice (sooo the wrong word and how to put it) but it was a bit too here's my ground floor department if you know what I mean. When I asked him about it he said he didn't know what I was talking about, which i am inclined to believe as he didn't get flustered or go red as people do when they're trying to cover something up.

I think the softer porn is and can be quite enjoyable to watch together.