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Postby dilema » Sat Mar 17, 2022 2:52 pm

:-8 thanks for the reply, I think I needed that kick up the ass -
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Re: Advice Needed Please

Postby nini83 » Sat Mar 17, 2022 9:55 pm

Phew didn't want to read and not reply but don't really know what to say to you. I was in a very unhappy relationship for 8 yrs before i met my now husband and parts of what you say remind me of it - life is too short to be unhappy so you need to have a major "come to jesus talk" (thats what we call it at home!!) or else leave or else put up and shut up either way only YOU can make the decision.
What I will say to you is to mock /slag or make jibes at someone over their weight is absolutely despicable , I am not saying that to make you feel bad but how you could do that to someone you love is beyond me. Please stop it is not nice , and maybe if you stop looking for his reactions and attention in such outlandish ways he might give it to you?
I hope you find a way to sort this out as bringing a child into this relationship is really not a good idea :action32
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Re: Advice Needed Please

Postby dilema » Sat Mar 17, 2022 10:11 pm

You're right, it is dispicable, I will delete my post and just cop on and try and sort this out. thank you
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Re: Advice Needed Please

Postby nini83 » Sat Mar 17, 2022 10:19 pm

Oh god didn't mean too be too harsh hun honestly i just say what I think- He doesn't sound like an angel either I really think that "talk " is in order. I just really have a thing about teasing people about weight - i'm not overweight but I just can't stand it makes me cringe and think it is so so hurtful - by the sounds of the post you both need to up the respect you have for each other- you are husband and wife you should be each others bessies not hurting each other :wv :lvs
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Re: Advice Needed Please

Postby dilema » Sun Mar 18, 2022 12:04 am

no problem you know what its just been a bad patch in fact its just been a week or two of niggling that kind of came to a head, I adore him and he adores me, I think the pressure of ttc is getting to us both we both want this so much. We have been away two weeks ago and got on brilliant and we have a holiday booked for a few months time, I guess my job is to clean up after him you know thats what wives do, I just wish I wasnt taken for granted so much.

He is definitely no angel either and he admits that himself, but we know we can work it out. Thank you for replying. xx
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