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I DO or I WILL

Will you say:

I DO
18
64%
I WILL
8
29%
something else
2
7%
 
Total votes : 28

I DO or I WILL

Postby Sart » Fri Jul 15, 2022 2:04 pm

I'm not involved in the church side of our wedding and was looking at our order of service that H2B did last night.

It says "will you X take X as your husband" and then we say "I will".

Sounds silly but I really wanted to say "I do" :(

H2B says you never say "I do" but I'm sure you do. His Dad's the Reverend so I assume he knows best.
Does your religion have anything to do with it? We're CofI.
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Postby sligogirl » Fri Jul 15, 2022 2:19 pm

thats quite simple to change
instead of saying

will you x take x...........etc

say

Do you x take x etc

then ur answer is I DO :lol: :lol:

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Postby workingmom » Fri Jul 15, 2022 3:16 pm

Does it matter, I do, I will, it's all the same at the end of the day you'll end up married anyhoo.. just ask to change it if you don't like it.
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Postby Sart » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:35 pm

thats quite simple to change
instead of saying

will you x take x...........etc

say

Do you x take x etc

then ur answer is I DO :lol: :lol:


I dont think its that simple. Its up to the Reverend surely? Our service is coming straight from the book of common prayer. I dont think you can just change it, can you?
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Postby sligogirl » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:39 pm

I am not sure bout THAT particular case but I do know from speaking to the priest we can have will or do
again not sure bout that case, ask would be my thought.

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Postby bridette » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:39 pm

I'm sure if you just say "I do" he won't stop the ceremony and call you up on it!! Try it at the rehearsal and see if he says anything... ?

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Postby MrsS » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:49 pm

Hi Sart

We're coi too and saying I will. To be honest any wedding I've been at (either religeon) I think it's always been I will.

But check with H2Bs dad - he'll give you a fair and honest answer.
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Postby LynSept05 » Fri Jul 15, 2022 4:55 pm

I like "I do" but think it's coz I'm used to hearing them say that in movies etc...
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Postby deem » Mon Jul 18, 2022 11:32 am

we're saying I do. I dont know about CoI , but I'm RC and H2B CoE getting married in RC church, by RC priest, we can say either, I would just ask,RC have, http://www.catholicireland.net/gettingmarried/ceremony/vowstext.htm

Dont know how it works for CoI
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