2WW - 6 cycles or months plus TTC

by **MrsPositive** » Wed May 09, 2022 9:01 pm

oh happieout you poor girl your mind must be gone into over drive, I cant imagine what you're going through

I dont know much about this as we havent done a SA for my husband yet but look please God all will be ok and they will be able to do something for you if it comes back low.

Thinking of you and your OH, take care x

by **dancingfeet** » Wed May 09, 2022 9:26 pm

oh happieout so sorry to hear that. Like Mrspositive said hopefully all with be ok with the next sa.
Thinking of you and your husband thought this time xx

moobear · by **moobear** » Wed May 09, 2022 10:26 pm

Oh Happieout I'm so sorry to hear that. I really hope there was a mix up somewhere along the way. I hope you are coping and that your OH is doing as ok as is possible. I can't imagine what you are both going through. I really hope you are ok. Big hugs to you and your OH

Mrspositive delighted to hear af finally arrive for you. Fx your cycles will return to some sort of normality for you now

Dancingfeet fingers toes and everything possible crossed for you that this is your month. That is an excellent plan re testing. Hope you will be having n/a cocktails for the foreseeable future.

Afm well still waiting on my peak. In really hoping that I have it tomorrow morning. 2 highs in a row before a peak is a new one for me. The last 2 months it's been all lows then a 2 day peak back to a high and then all lows after that. I'm really hoping I have it before the weekend as I don't think the boys are going to manage to swim from the uk if it happens early next week

:babydust:

by **petri** » Thu May 10, 2022 10:03 am

happieout thinking of u hope u are ok and the next results are ok

How is everyone else doing?! Im on CD 26 due AF around Sunday. So far no signs - had few niggly cramps last week but nothing now :eek

by **dancingfeet** » Thu May 10, 2022 10:14 am

morning ladies, Tested this morning and a BFN >:o(

, so the sore boobs a metalic was all for nothing, af due tomorrow.

FX for you petri

by **petri** » Thu May 10, 2022 11:18 am

Sorry to hear that dancingfeet - hopefully u just ovulated later than u thought and it was too early to test xx

littlesugarloaf · by **littlesugarloaf** » Thu May 10, 2022 12:32 pm

That's a real bummer Dancingfeet, hope you're doing okay.

Happieout, sounds like you and your DH have been through such a tough time of it. Good news is definitely deserved!!

by **bebes** » Thu May 10, 2022 2:14 pm

Dancingfeet sorry to hear of bfn.

Happieout hopefully the next SA results will come back fine.

Moobear fingers crossed for that peak tomorrow. This month I got no highs at all got peaks on cd13 and cd 14 and a high after that. (but i hadnt used the monitor in 3 months) Do I count 1 dpo form the 2nd peak or the high following ?

MrsPositive good to hear Af arrived for you.

littlesugarloaf how are you doing?

Hi to everyone else i missed... anyone else due to test?

ninja next · by **ninja next** » Thu May 10, 2022 3:08 pm

Dancing feet so sorry about the bfn but dont count yourself out yet please.

Happieout - yourself and your hubby have had a horrible few days, im so sorry. It seems impossible to go from a fine result to zero sperm though so please god there has been a mistake and the next one will be ok.

Moobear - Im on day day 17 & have been getting highs since day 10, we're wrecked!! I reckon ill get my peak tomorow though so only a few more days to go & we'lll both be on the 2ww! Keep on at it as the sperm can live for up to 5 days so even if you miss peak you'll be in with a chance (without them having to swim from the UK).

bebes - I usually take the high as 1dpo

Hi to everyone else!

happieout · by **happieout** » Thu May 10, 2022 7:32 pm

Thanks for the good wishes girls, unfortunately there was zero in the sample on Tuesday. I'm heartbroken as is dh. I don't know what's going to happen next, I got a positive opk last night and there's not a hope of getting pregnant naturally now. Maybe there's an obstruction or something but I think now the first result might have been a mixup and there's nothing there at all. So there could be no hope for us. Either way there'll be no baby without a biopsy and ivf at best and that's from my googling and a couple of kind pms from wollies. We don't know yet and I;m terrified of facing a childless life.
I can't see myself on this thread any more as there wont be any more 2ww in the near future, I just want to wish everyone the best of luck, I'll be checking for the bfps and thinking of ye. Please say a little prayer that things will be ok :babydust:

mrsbo · by **mrsbo** » Thu May 10, 2022 7:39 pm

happieout am so sorry to hear your sad news. Take care of yourself and your hubbie ...you are in all our hearts and please god this is just the next step in your journey to be parents.

We are all at the start of the process of discovering whats preventing us becoming parents , so just remember you are not alone......take care

teatimebride · by **teatimebride** » Thu May 10, 2022 8:25 pm

next/bebes, I always took the 2nd peak day was ov day so day after as 1dpo, am I wrong??

Still waiting on my peak, 15 highs in a row now. I was fairly sick this time 2 weeks ago, was on antibiotics for 7 days, and then came out in awful hives when they were finished so looks like I'm now allergic to penicillin. Was taking anti histamines, and then when I wasn't ovulating, I googled the effect of anti histamine on ovulation and it turns out that there is a fairly high chance that it inhibits ovulation. Fan bloody tastic. Been getting loads of EWCM las day or so so hoping for a peak in the morning.

happieout, so sorry to read about your DH's SA. Hugs hun, look after eachother. XXXX

moobear · by **moobear** » Thu May 10, 2022 10:21 pm

Happieout I'm so sorry to read your news. I'm not surprised that you are both heartbroken. I hope with biopsy etc that your wish to become parents will come true. Hugs to the both of you and I will be thinking of the both of you

Dancingfeet sorry to hear of you BFN. However you are not out till the witch shows her ugly face. Fx for you and I hope you have a lovely weekend in Waterford.

I always take the high as 1dpo however that is just me. I really hope to have my peak in the morning but I told OH that if I didn't have my peak we would just have to dtd on Sunday and pray that either the boys will hang around for longer than they have been or the peak comes tomorrorw or if not tomorrow Wednesday

Ninja next you and I are almost on the same day. I'm on cd16 and hoping for my peak tomorrow. Was tempted to take more day off and go to the uk with OH just so I am close to the swimmers! What am I like! Insane is probably the best word to discribe me!!!

Petri how you? Youre next to test?? :babydust:

Hi to everyone else. Anyone else due to test over the weekend?

by **MrsPositive** » Fri May 11, 2022 12:11 am

Happieout so sorry to hear this about your OH, but hopefully its a blockage that can be resolved and that things will be able to be resolved for you. Please dont visualise yourself childless, think positive and your wish will come true, I know you will get pregnant its just wondering what the best route is for you now.

Will say a prayer for you and Im very hopeful you will be back on here with some good news about your OH.

Lots of Love xx :thnk

littlesugarloaf · by **littlesugarloaf** » Fri May 11, 2022 8:13 am

Happieout, I'm so, so sorry. The unfairness of all of this is so upsetting - no one should have to go through this. I hope you have some time this weekend to take care of each other. I PM'd you too. Am just so, so sorry.

If anyone had told me a year ago I'd actually be thinking about acupuncture or meditation or any of the mind/body stuff, I'd have said they were insane. But yet here I am, on CD8 of Cycle 12 thinking that I'm one or two cycles away from IUI. Madness!!

I'm not due a consultation with doc until week after next but am thinking of ringing next week. Girls, I've put up half a stone since I started Eltroxin. I run three times a week, I don't overeat too much and I'm now 12 stone!! I was 10 and a half when I started this TTC lark and 11st 7 when I first went to Sims.

So I'm going back to Weight Watchers next week and our work place has a deal with the local gym so I'm going to give that a try. I've heard that with all the drugs they give you with IUI that you put on about 5lbs just from that. That's heading into scary territory!

So them's my woes this week. The only plus is that DH says I don't look any different from the day we got married (am seriously worried about his eyesight) and he thinks I'm fab. I've threatened to sit on him if he annoys me so he kinda had to say that. :o0

Try to stay smiling everyone. Very best of luck to anyone due to test this weekend and those who are about to start the 2ww.

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