Not having a hen night/weekend etc

C13 · by **C13** » Fri Mar 02, 2022 3:39 pm

How many more times do i have to tell people I'M NOT HAVING A HEN NIGHT!!!!!!!!!!!! I just don't want one, not into them and people just aren't getting it! :eek

I don't mind going on them for other people but its just not me! its taking enough to build up towards the wedding and the thought of standing in front of people and being the centre of attention so to speak!

fizzgig · by **fizzgig** » Fri Mar 02, 2022 4:31 pm

Oh, are you sure, you might enjoy it :o0

Joke !!

C13 · by **C13** » Fri Mar 02, 2022 4:34 pm

lol haha nice one fizzgig!!! :o0

by **Elizabeth Bennett** » Sat Mar 03, 2022 1:33 pm

You HAVE to have a hen party! I mean himself is having a stag.

Sorry another joke. I've heard them all.

by **number1cat** » Sat Mar 03, 2022 7:00 pm

I didn't have a hen night but I went out for dinner with my sister, some friends, my mother, my then FMIL, my cousin and my aunt. It was a nice night and I enjoyed it. I didn't want a long session and no one hassled me for it. Hope your own plans work out the same way. H2B and some of his friends went for a quiet drink and he was back home the following day, no crazy trip worthy of The Hangover films. He was adamant that he did not want a stag weekend.

me julie · by **me julie** » Tue Mar 06, 2022 12:35 pm

I think your right with the hassle Im getting from in laws think you would be better not to bother... Its your choice dont let anyone tell youu different!!!

C13 · by **C13** » Tue Mar 06, 2022 12:44 pm

Oh ladies! its a never ending barage of exactly some of the things you said there in thread! i just smile sweetly now and nod! I'm as stubborn as the day is long and i'll definitely be doing it my way!!! :o0

ps me julie i hear ya on the inlaws issue!!! O:|

by **Jawl** » Tue Mar 06, 2022 12:53 pm

me julie wrote:I think your right with the hassle Im getting from in laws think you would be better not to bother... Its your choice dont let anyone tell youu different!!!

That's an inlaw thing, well mine are like it anyway. Damned if you do, damned if you don't :o0

C13 · by **C13** » Tue Mar 06, 2022 3:12 pm

Lol oh ladies inlaws are just in a league of their own! My fmil told me a while back she still had her claws in her son, my H2B! Thats the kind of thing I'm listening to! Told her i'd get the nail clippers then!!! :innocent:

by **Jawl** » Tue Mar 06, 2022 3:54 pm

C13 wrote:Lol oh ladies inlaws are just in a league of their own! My fmil told me a while back she still had her claws in her son, my H2B! Thats the kind of thing I'm listening to! Told her i'd get the nail clippers then!!!

Ah you've lovely inlaws like mine so? ;o)

My SIL (hate calling her that) told me while she sat having dinner in our house one night, that if Mr. Jawl died between now and our wedding, all his money would go to her kids!!!!! :ooh

Why would you say such a horrible thing??

C13 · by **C13** » Tue Mar 06, 2022 4:06 pm

I sure do Jawl! Its a complete b*tch fest sometimes! His mother is the kind that wants to know everything about everyone yet she's very guarded about her own lot! Although she let the guard down one day and started talking about her daughter in law in a not so nice light! she suddenly realised she was talking to a "stranger" in me and stopped right in her tracks! her daughter in laws ears must have been burning cos she was b*tching about the mother in law then the next time i saw her! :o0

Oh my god Jawl are you serious! What kind of crazy is she saying that kind of an awful thing?! Some people are just a law unto themselves really! Like you i can't deal with the whole calling his sisters my SIL's! to me i have my own sisters! fun times!

gaff · by **gaff** » Fri Mar 30, 2022 9:23 pm

C13 I got married at Christmas and felt I was putting enough expense on people so I didn't want to add to the burden and have a weekend hen as well - plus I am of the opinion that 2nights of a hen is a recipe for disaster!! I just had one great nite out very civilised a meal and a few drinks and had great aul craic!! Do what u want to do and feck the rest of them!

C13 · by **C13** » Fri Mar 30, 2022 10:27 pm

Oh gaff I'm doing exactly what I want to do this weekend unknown to most and heading off for a night with my two closest friends! Sick to the gills of listening to the usual
Oh my god you have to have a hen night................. EH NO I FLAMING DONT!

Elizabeth Draper · by **Elizabeth Draper** » Sat Mar 31, 2022 10:19 am

OMG i could have written that.

i hate them and his famiy keep telling they are going to organise a surprise one for me.

i had to make sure i was out of the county the night of hid stag just in case O:|

trance · by **trance** » Sat Mar 31, 2022 11:44 am

I didn't have a hen night.

And yet the world is still turning and I'm still alive! Imagine!!

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