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Just need to vent about guest list

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Postby lovemybed » Fri Apr 20, 2022 12:05 am

thats incredible. like is all that coming from SIL? is she telling BIL to say they will refuse to attend the wedding? if thats the case your BIL needs to see the wood from the trees and tell her to cop herself on.
if i was being an idiot over something my fiance would tell me straight out and certainly wouldnt be fighting with his family so i could get what i wanted. i wuld be like you though i dont think id have a choice either. you'd only end up the bad person in all this. but i dont think id ever forget it. the invites for SIL's parents is nothing who cares if they are there or not you mightnt even see them for the day and it certainly wont change your day. but how can you have a positive relationship wth BIL and SIL after they did that. its obvious there will never be true friendship. asking for invites is one thing but threatening to not go unless they got what they wanted is just incredible and id have lost all respect for them both. be there for your fiance and forget about BIL id say
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Re: Just need to vent about guest list

Postby lovemybed » Fri Apr 20, 2022 12:08 am

thats incredible. like is all that coming from SIL? is she telling BIL to say they will refuse to attend the wedding? if thats the case your BIL needs to see the wood from the trees and tell her to cop herself on.
if i was being an idiot over something my fiance would tell me straight out and certainly wouldnt be fighting with his family so i could get what i wanted. i wuld be like you though i dont think id have a choice either. you'd only end up the bad person in all this. but i dont think id ever forget it. the invites for SIL's parents is nothing who cares if they are there or not you mightnt even see them for the day and it certainly wont change your day. but how can you have a positive relationship wth BIL and SIL after they did that. its obvious there will never be true friendship. asking for invites is one thing but threatening to not go unless they got what they wanted is just incredible and id have lost all respect for them both. be there for your fiance and forget about BIL id say
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