him - "Why are you so stressed"?
me - "Seriously?!"
him - "what else is there to do"?
me - "seriously?!!!"
him - "why dont you ask for my help?"
me - "eh, ok. help!"
him - "right what can I do?"
me - "everything! i need to figure out who is travelling with who, i need to figure out who is sleeping where the night before and then the night of the wedding, who is staying the 2nd night, figure out who can collect the cake and bring it up, when we are going to get the wine up there, what we are going to eat the day before, ...."
him - "no no no, not that kind of stuff... im not doing the figuring out stuff, your better at that..give me an actual list, like an actual list of jobs I can tick off!"
me - "they are all jobs you can tick off"!
him - "no like proper jobs"
me - "ok, we'll we've to chase up the late RSVP's, heres the excel sheet, we've to send over the music list, write up the ceremony outline, make signs for directions, contact the caterer to change the canopé choice, contact the chair cover people and make sure they know to move the covers after the ceremony...."
him - "no, no no , not that stuff, you know all about the ins and outs of this stuff, you know all the details. is there anything else I can do ?"
me - *sigh* "no"
him - "there has to be other stuff that needs doing? do you not have another list?"
me - "there probably is other stuff!! lots of other stuff! im sure im dropping the ball somewhere but I can't tell you where or what else there is to do because I have never planned a wedding before have I? I dont have a magic list of things that I automatically know need to be done, I just know that they need to be done when I realise they need to be done! Then I just DO THEM!! Im not your mother! figure it out for yourself! get your head in the game!!!!
"silence
him - "you're a control freak".
seriously does anyone else have one like this??!
