Frozen embryo transfers ?

OurYear · by **OurYear** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 1:32 pm

Starsun it is really early to be testing. But I know what you mean about your gut telling you. I really would wait until Sunday and test then again. Big Hugs!!!! :xox

amberjack · by **amberjack** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 6:36 pm

Starsun,step away from the tests (at least for another few days) its probably a little early to be testing. Best of luck and big hugs for the next few days, they will be so tough to get through, but you can do it.
Xx A

by **star sun 1** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 7:17 pm

I can't girls, i'm in absolute bits. Gosh getting a BFN hurts so so much, i think as i know money won't allow us go again anytime soon makes it so so much harder.

I know you all say i tested to soon but i just know deep down its a real BFN.

God i sound so selfish as i already have my DD and the poor women who are still fighting to get a BFP , but it just hurts so so much :o(

Thanks for the replies though

by **Muse** » Thu Apr 05, 2022 7:25 pm

Star Sun, I'm so, so sorry :o(

There really are no words that will make bad news like this any easier. I am truly sorry for you and your DH (and your little DD). I will keep you in my thoughts and also secretly hope that it was just too early to test.

Take care :lvs

by **suitcase of hopes and dreams** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 11:50 am

Starsun how you getting on , did you test again??? Am really hoping it was just too early :babydust:

by **kiss chase** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 3:01 pm

Hi All

Being keeping an eye on the forum for the last little while. Just feel so down to hear all the sad news.

I hadn't posted myself since I got the all clear from the clinic (abnormal smear) but we were told that we were alllowed to continue with our FET, unfortunately, no good news myself, all our 6 little snow babies didn't make it. I was in complete and utter shock. That happened during the week and am only starting to get my head around it now.

So hoping to start a fresh cycle soon. does anyone know how long I would have to wait to start one???? We have hols booked for end of June so not sure whether to wait until after we come back or just keep going.

Starsun hopefully you tested way too soon.

Hopeful S, hope you are enjoying your break.

:wv

to everyone else. Here is hoping that we will all have better news soon.

by **star sun 1** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 5:45 pm

Hi SOHAD,
Yes i have tested 5 times now and all BFN :o(

Not even a hint of a second line so i know i am well and truly out.
Am a little shocked if i'm honest as SIMS were very happy with my Embryos, they told me the were perfect and developing well for day 3.
Its such a killer seeing BFN every time i test. I'll take my last test tomorrow morning but i know full well it will be BFN also.

Had a long talk with DH and we are taking a break for awhile as ive been a emotional wreck during this cycle and its not fair on any of us especially DD..... i'm gonna enjoy watching my little lady grow up and taking her first steps etc.
We plan to start again in October, this also give us time to get the 7,500 ready for the fresh cycle. I will deffo be going to blast next time as i really really only want to go through ONE more 2ww.

Kiss Chase so so sorry to hear your snowbabies didn't make, i'm sure that was a huge shock for you after having 6. What cells were they or were they blasts?
This whole TTC business is so so hard sometimes :xox

Wishing you the best of luck with your fresh cycle.

Busbybabe · by **Busbybabe** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 7:38 pm

Starsun: For my first FET I didn't get a second line until 10 DPO and it was very faint only got a strong line on 12DPO. I'm hoping you are not out

Girls: havn't been on here in a while but I'm back on the threadmill again. Starting the sniffer next week and have been given all my dates so hopefully if all goes according to plan, I will be having a transfer around the third week in May.
Anybodyelse else having an FET around the same time?

by **star sun 1** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 8:21 pm

Hi Busbybabe ,
Do you mean 10PT? ( did you have transfer on day 3 or 5). Im 10DP3DT which would be 13DPO.
Im 10 day post transfer today and still BFN :o(

Best of luck with your FET in May :babydust:

Busbybabe · by **Busbybabe** » Sat Apr 07, 2022 9:07 pm

star sun 1 wrote:Hi Busbybabe ,
Do you mean 10PT? ( did you have transfer on day 3 or 5). Im 10DP3DT which would be 13DPO.
Im 10 day post transfer today and still BFN

Best of luck with your FET in May

Starsun : I had a five day transfer!
I stand corrected as I have just checked my records. I got a BFN on 10 DPO (5 days post transfer). I got my first BFP (faint) on 12 DPO (7 days post transfer) this got stronger over the next 2 days indicating the HCG in my system was going up but sadly we ended up with it being a BFN after blood tests confirmed a chemical pregnancy :weep

by **star sun 1** » Sun Apr 08, 2022 5:46 pm

Thanks Busbybabe,
Sorry to hear you had a chemical pregnancy last time, best of luck with your next cycle.

Another BFN this morning so i know that's it. I'm actually doing ok, better then i expected.... just wasn't my time i guess. I got lucky before and will again but giving myself a little break from it all.
I stopped all my meds today ( not meant to stop till Wednesday,my OTD ) but i'm having a bad reaction to the gel this time.

Best of luck to everyone doing FET soon, i'll still pop by to say hello

by **feather** » Sun Apr 08, 2022 6:28 pm

Starsun, so sorry to hear it didn't work out. I know you were convinced of it last week, but its easier for us to keep the faith for you. Look after yourself xxx

Busbybabe, good to see you back! Good luck! How many more embies do you have stored?

Kisschase, so sorry to hear none of your embies made it, that must have come as a shock. Good luck with the fresh cycle, I suppose it depends on your clinic and their waiting list... hopefully you will get going again soon, if thats what you want!

amberjack · by **amberjack** » Sun Apr 08, 2022 7:31 pm

Ah Starsun, gutted for you, I really am, it's such an awful journey. Don't really know what else to say, you have me lost for words.
Take care of yourself :thnk

by **royalgirl** » Mon Apr 09, 2022 9:11 am

Starsun

its the pits, you take care of yourself dh & dd now, take a break from it all and be nice to yourself, its the worst kick in the guts xx i know what you mean about 2ww, id rather do 2 weeks in solitary confinement in some jailhouse than go through it, but its behind you now. take care xxx

kisschase so sorry to hear your embies didnt make it that sucks must have been a hard blow to take xx

busbybabe sorry to hear about your chemical pregnancy, to have gotten bfp and then for it to be taken away is horrendous, i know that feeling. i hope to be starting the meds for fet at weekend and all going well transfer sometime around 1st week in may.

hi to everyone else, hope ye are having a nice easter break. such a horrible morning, think il be on the couch for the day :wv

by **star sun 1** » Mon Apr 09, 2022 5:31 pm

Girls i'm actually shaking as i type this but i just did another test about 20 minutes ago and there is a second line :eek

Its very faint but 100% a second line..... ive just sent DH to get my more tests.
I don't know what to think.... why so faint this late, is it gonna be a chemical pregnancy?
Oh my head is all over the place and stupid me stopped all my meds and have been lefting DD everywhere and letting her jump on my stomach O:|

Please Please let this be a real BFP.

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